My Reflection

Dealing With Others

We go to school not only to learn lessons that are taken from books. We learn not only inside of our respective classrooms but we also learn outside of it where we meet different kinds of people. In dealing with different kinds of people, we must show the best we can be. It is really hard because not all people around us will accept who we really are. But as what they say, those who appear in our lives, whether to help or to turn us down are all permitted by God. Meet all of them with a peaceful heart but warriors’ spirit. We may fail many times, but in failing we learn and in learning, we will find our way.

As a human being, we face different trials in life especially when dealing with other people. As a student, there are problems and challenges that I encountered when I enter the life of being a senior. Your patience, leadership, teamwork and how we deal with others will be tested. When we have group projects or group presentations, we sometimes take it for granted. We are not really serious about it. We often rushed things, do it in the last minute. If you can’t see your group mates trying to make an effort, you as a concerned member of the group need to speak out. To avoid misunderstandings, you need to talk to them politely, in a good manner, ask them to cooperate. But I can’t understand why those intelligent people are sometimes hard to be with. They are doing something that is not related to the project or presentation. They are doing whatever they want to do. But when time comes that the leader got mad at them, they are acting like a child, hard for them to accept that they are not cooperating. However, in the end, the love and the teamwork of everybody is worth it. We may not win every time, but in every competition, we are gaining different lessons and do things better next time.

I face all challenges beyond all problems because I believe that the more pain to overcome, the stronger we become. Just hold on, keep on fighting. God is there. In everything we do, put God first. Ask for His help and guidance and He will never fail you.

Moving on, I will do my best, be myself, keep moving forward and I always trust God for His promises that He will never leave me nor forsake me. Even if my kindness won’t acknowledge by anyone, I will still remember that someone in heaven smiles for what I’ve done.